How do we connect with ourselves and our hearts as sensitive feminine beings and find solitude, in a world that is so outwardly and masculine focused?

For the sensitive feminine who wishes to point her awareness and focus more on her own internal world and heart in a world that holds endless demands, tasks and expectations on her to perform, achieve, deliver, please and prove her worth, often finds herself in a place where she is frustrated and tired, because she is beginning to realize just how exhausting it is to keep living through her subconscious programming in an outwardly and masculine driven realm.

Yet, shifting her awareness inward tends to hold blockages that sometimes seem difficult to get around or penetrate.

She fears that moving away from her masculine influenced "safety" and familiar ways of being and into aligning with her truth, heart and deeper soul purpose might cause the people around her to think less of her, judge her or not approve of her choices to follow her divine path.

She also might fear that it is naive or idealistic to live a life which requires no pushing, hustling or striving, but that simply flows with ease and where her true self, gifts and qualities as a feminine being are cherished, honored and supported, not diminished.

But what I have discovered, is that her longing and deeper voice of wisdom always seem to outweigh her fears at some point, pointing her in the direction of what is in her heart.

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Since so much of a women's sense of value is connected with how much she performs, pleases and achieves, releasing these ways can feel like a daunting thing, even if it feels entirely right to her heart and soul.

But when a woman gently begins to shift her focus and navigates back to what feels right (rather than what she think "should be"), these fear becomes lighter and she soon begins to re-discover that her true and inherent value is not something that can be measured with effort, it is something she possesses from birth.

Releasing the old ways where she equals effort with value therefor becomes easy and natural (rather than a performance or pressure) when she realizes and connects with her deeper inherent value.

In order to shift, one must first realize that these are the ways in which she has been conditioned and further recognize that there is a deeper octave to life life that is found only in her internal world, heart and essence.

When she begins to shift, which is how she begins to reconnect with her heart and truth, her natural radiance as a woman begins to emerge without effort.

To give space for shifting, one must learn the art of softening from within which is a given antidote to striving that keeps a woman disconnected from het truth.

To soften means to release the urge to go into default mode of your subconscious programming where you push, force and keep a harsh approach to yourself + where you always look for things to fix, solve or change and instead lean into the natural and organic unfolding of your life where you cultivate trust and faith in who you naturally are as a sensitive, spiritual and feminine soul.

This is her own awakening and realization that there is a different way of life pending for her, one that she has been divinely created to follow (and one that whispers softly to her from deep within). It sparks a knowing that guides her away from the masculine oriented ways and back to her truth even if fear to some degree is still present.

This is how she reconnects with her internal realms in a world that is so outwardly focused, when she holds the courage to finally follow her deeper intuition and knowing over staying in her created conditioning that was never meant for her in the first place.

It is a journey and process back to self, one that perhaps holds fears and resistance at times, but they are nothing more than beautiful opportunities and guides towards deeper connection and growth. These parts that seem to continue blocking us from our true essence, are the parts that need softening the most (sometimes many times over) and once that is received, they will gently be released all on their own.

Lots of love,

Stina